i still find the connecting on a certain energy level... fascinating
me: it's the beauty of being vibrational beings
when you think that we are just physical solid matter, the idea of simultaneous thinking doesn't make sense...like having the same thought at the same time
Wendy: as in the concept of simultaneous thinking makes sense on an energy level, not physically
me: but when you think of everything as fluid all-present consciousness, expressing itself through these energetic systems we call "bodies" then the idea that the same thought is expressed at the same time makes sense
Wendy: well.. physically, we're all more or less the same (same working organs etc.) but we're vastly different in our thoughts
me: if you saw us as solid pieces of hardware, it makes no sense
we're very similar in what we think, only the sequence of thoughts is varried
like how we think our thoughts is different, but we all think the same kinds of thoughts in different arrangements
Wendy: true. the sequence of thoughts is enough to give us our each unique experience
me: that's what makes as relate to one another easily
we all have access to the same thoughts, we just access them in different order
even on different energy levels.. you would say we have access to the same thoughts?
me: when you raise your frequency up to a certain level, you access ALL thoughts of that frequency range that have ever been thought
if you still your mind enough, you can access the thoughts Buddha thought
nothing is off limit to you
no thought is hidden from you
what you access is all a matter of what you tune yourself to
Wendy: so essentially it's which frequency we choose to tune to....
Wendy: i can access both the most negative to the most positive thought
Wendy: depending on which i bring my attention to, in a way
just like a radio
or a tv
me: all radios and tv's can broadcast the same program
me: just a matter of what channel you turn them to
Wendy: that brings the whole concept of potentiality too.
me: just a matter of where you set the frequency dial to
everything, every possibility is right now streaming for you
which possibility you access is entirely contained in what you're tuned into
me: right now, right where you are
past and future are different frequency streams
meaning, they are thoughts you think
Wendy: (haha.. i'm getting an aha moment)
me: i love those!
that's why your present moment is so powerful
it is the point at which you can access EVERYTHING
Wendy: and present is different from each of those as well?
me: the sense of presence is
meaning the space of right now
this is where you access everything from
Wendy: true.. we live in the present moment.
me: but like everything else, what you access right now can change easily
Wendy: and we interact with the world in the present
me: if you tune yourself to joy right now, the sequences of scenes your experience will be of a different feeling
right now is where you really live and interact and read energy
Wendy: definitely. i've experienced that myself too.
me: just right here and right now. that's all that's ever on your plate
every possibility is here
and you can check it
Wendy: check it?
me: 'cause if in one moment you're in anger and then work your way up to joy, you'll see how everything around you changes exactly according to your own state
make note of how you experience the world and what you evoke in people when you're in a mood
the universe is always mirroring to you your own frequency
Sent at 9:38 AM on Monday
Wendy: i've definitely had days when i started being more difficult, but then made efforts to change my own internal state... and the rest of the day changed
me: so the outcome you experience when you're in joy is simultaneously existing with other outcomes you can possibility experience. just like 101.2 FM is a simultaneous broadcast to 93.9FM
Wendy: timing is playing with me today, so i see interesting things going on the rest of the day... we'l have to see
me: and ti's always like that
you set the tone of your day
but it's not fixed
Wendy: definitely not.
me: you can change your dial at any point deliberately and as a result change what comes to you
Wendy: it's very much fluid.
Wendy: for me, i think it's most difficult to do that when i'm in the company of people that trigger certain sets of emotions.
me: that's why you pre-pave
Wendy: often because of a long history.. ex: friends from high school or family
me: meaning clean that up when you're not around them
Wendy: true. and then it'll become easier to continue that way with them around
me: meaning start practicing better feeling thoughts about them in their absence
yes, you will have tuned yourself to tune into a different aspect of t hem
we're all multi-faceted beings
meaning someone in a bad mood is going to receive you differently than someone in a good mood.
what you're feeling has nothing to do with them
it has everything to do with what thoughts you've practiced about them
so anytime you see them, you see them through the thoughts you've practiced
so naturally that's what you experience - the negative emotion
Sent at 9:43 AM on Monday
Wendy: and if all beings are able to access all thoughts, essentially, then their response to the frequency that i have at that moment with them will change as well
it's the type of interaction you bring to them, in a way...
and the way the universe works
is that you'll never interact with someone who can't match how good you feel about them
meaning if you're having these positive thoughts about someone, and that someone is in a really really negative place, the two of you won't come together
like attracts like
so you'll only see them when they're in your frequency vicinity
ever have people drop out of your life? it's that. you started stabilizing in different frequencies
Wendy: that's really interesting.
me: it's a perfect design
no need to end relationships or try to mend them
when you keep yourself in check
the things that are a match to you show up
and those that are not fall away
i'm experiencing that more and more
and i don't question it
Wendy: and it's that natural aspect of continuing on with your life... there's no emotional attachment (guilt, etc.)
me: 'cause now i know it's all about the energy or frequency i'm constantly tuning into that determines who i'm going to meet
all those practiced patterns
the clinging etc.
all of that is human misunderstanding
Wendy: it's unnecessary
me: it isn't
Wendy: we enjoy making it convoluted
me: everything has a natural rhythm and freedom to it
i was watching a documentary
Wendy: haha.. it does...
ya.. haha. i love documentaries
me: about how this type of chimp where the mother just drops off the baby chimp and takes off after a certain time
there's no attachment
there is no clinging
Wendy: it's just natural
me: there is just a total knowing and trust in the process
and we're a part of that natural knowing
we've only "convoluted" the process with our insecure concepts
"oh how can you leave me" is so utter nonsense
in essence, they've already left..
even if not physically
me: because we are all born so completely whole with all the right equiptments
it's just that, he or she was never yours to begin with
me: beings come together in freedom
as independent and whole beings
there's no clinging or possesiveness in any of it
Wendy: and that's what a true relationship is
me: you don't see that kind of pattern ANYWHERE else in this universe
Wendy: right... it's unnatural. it defies how we're built and how we function
me: that's what ALL spiritual teachings try and point you toward, your freedom to just be and evolve with your natural impulses. you come into this world and you leave this world as a whole individual
it's suffocating to be held as a possession
but that's what we practice
"until death do us part"
what if you grow apart?
me: what if you evolve differently?
Wendy: haha.. i've always had issues with that line too
Wendy: why shouldn't your relationship give you the freedom to evolve...
me: at best you can say "i'd love it if we evolve together"
Wendy: haha.. exactly
but if you don't, then that's ok
me: we have this "if i'm stuck in a rut you have to be stuck in a rut with me" mentality
Wendy: it's so true!
but it's so wrong
me: 'cause love means we suffer together!
Wendy: why would you give someone else a negative experience that's separate from your own?
me: it's an incredibly flawed premise
Wendy: i've always thought that way too!
me: it doesn't encourage growth
everything around you is growth-oriented
me: but the relationships we practice are "let's be like this forever"
EWW LET'S NOT
let's grow! let's change! let's expand!
Wendy: haha! YES
we're constantly adapting.. no single day is the same as the next
Wendy: and we wouldn't want it to be that way
me: no single moment is the same as the next
there's so much to say about it
it taps into the convoluted-ness that we build up.. the possession, suffering, etc.
and i think anyone who sort of stops and asks "does this relationship make me feel free" will find the answer
"oh but relationships are about compromise"
Wendy: it's like a so-called happiness defined by society.. but that doesn't fit with the individual.
me: do you see the air compromising or the ocean or the animals?
Wendy: ooh.. compromise.
me: everything here is true to its nature
to its individual nature
AND THAT'S what creates the harmony
me: harmony comes as a result of the individual being WHOLE and true to its purpose
to its being
me: i can't imagine if the trees compromised themselves or the ocean compromised its true nature to accommodate something else
Wendy: it would be a wacky world.